"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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48 Laws Of Game – #2: Never Put Too Much Trust In Friends, Learn How To Use Enemies

muscleman

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Copied from my blog, A Dark Heart


I'm going through and removing the body text of these posts as it's causing duplicate content issues with my blog (and here). I also don't want to spam the entire Tips Section, so moving forward I'll make compilation posts when appropriate. I'm glad you all enjoy my writing, I feel it's time to give back.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I enjoy your posts on the laws MM, regarding this though...

"And as for taking relationship advice from women – don’t. Exceptions notwithstanding, when it comes to matters of the heart men should heed the wisdom of other men, particular those with more experience in said matters. "

Id say only seek the wisdom of those who have success and experience with women. listening to some men you may as well listen to women! some awful advice going around.

regarding friends, I reallytrust very few people, they all have their own agenda and most friendships are at best transactional, the really true friendships were you have someone who is prepared to bail you out at the blink of an eye for no compensation other than the fact the respect is mutual, are few and far between.
 

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This is from the 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene. It's great book. I like that you are applying it to game.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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