Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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40+ Year Old Wall Survivor Can't Find a Man

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'll be honest, she's more bangable than 50% of chicks in their 20's. Good jeans are a dime a dozen.
 

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Ah, yes. This is where a lot of those **** carousel bad boy loving nice guy settling entitlement theories come from. It's all right there. Hot, wild, crazy, issues, baggage, high maintenance... She's definitely the type nice guys go after, too, and sympathize with. Ha Ha!
 

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She just can't find an alpha male and she's tired of the beta drones asking her out. Entitlement issues ftw.

Case closed.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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***** does not look 35 my wife is 36 in 3 days and looks 10 years younger. wears too much makeup to cover up the lines and wrinkles
 

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God, if that's what's considered hot at 40, then it's a sad future
 

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That's one hard-ridden and put-up-wet 43 year old! If you line up all the cὀck this bıtch had it would circle the earth twice!
 

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I know she is 40, but how can anyone say she is good looking??? She looks like she has smoked 2 packs of cigs a day every day her teen and adult life...

I see people rating pics of good looking chicks on here all the time like Concord's GF for example as below average or ugly, yet this one is good looking?

There is def a huge variation of taste among posters going on here....this chic probably looks like skeletor without her makeup....hell looks like it with her makeup on even.....

4 out of 10 for me and the entitlement issues lower her to 3...that being said, i would still hit it one time if she came on to me because i am a dog like that. :yes:
 
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backbreaker said:
***** does not look 35 my wife is 36 in 3 days and looks 10 years younger. wears too much makeup to cover up the lines and wrinkles
Did you marry a woman half a decade older than you?
zinc4 said:
I know she is 40, but how can anyone say she is good looking??? She looks like she has smoked 2 packs of cigs a day every day her teen and adult life...

I see people rating pics of good looking chicks on here all the time like Concord's GF for example as below average or ugly, yet this one is good looking?

There is def a huge variation of taste among posters going on here....this chic probably looks like skeletor without her makeup....hell looks like it with her makeup on even.....

4 out of 10 for me and the entitlement issues lower her to 3...that being said, i would still hit it one time if she came on to me because i am a dog like that. :yes:
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God, if that's what's considered hot at 40, then it's a sad future
For being in her 40's she is more attrractive (bangable) than most women in their 20's. Her looks pass for an HB 6. If you guys are telling me you will not bang her, then you are not only lying to the SoSuave forum, but moist importantly, yourself.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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.I don't believe in having sex with anyone I am not in a mutally exclusive relationship with
Translation: I fvck on the first date....and I don't know how to use spell check.

Classic POF profile, everything about it.

BeginningDJ said:
Did you marry a woman half a decade older than you?


For being in her 40's she is more attrractive (bangable) than most women in their 20's. Her looks pass for an HB 6. If you guys are telling me you will not bang her, then you are not only lying to the SoSuave forum, but moist importantly, yourself.
BDJ, even for a cougar, that chick is beat to $hit. Maybe a few good selfies..... for a 50 year old. But she's 43 and looks 32 or something. (according to her).

Myspace angles aside, She's a 6 for a 55 year old IMHO.
 

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I'd bang her.
 
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Peaks&Valleys said:
First line of profile:

Translation: I fvck on the first date....and I don't know how to use spell check.

Classic POF profile, everything about it.



BDJ, even for a cougar, that chick is beat to $hit. Maybe a few good selfies..... for a 50 year old. But she's 43 and looks 32 or something. (according to her).

Myspace angles aside, She's a 6 for a 55 year old IMHO.
Take this sh!t to the I'M DRUNK thread. I'd bang this woman - regardless of the baggage and age.
 

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I would be willing to bet that she was a groupie in the 80's.
 

Peaks&Valleys

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BeginningDJ said:
Take this sh!t to the I'M DRUNK thread. I'd bang this woman - regardless of the baggage and age.
If we were in the Drunk thread then I'd probably want to bang her.

But we're not. We're in the let's be sober and reasonable thread.

And let's talk about this 54 year old who thinks she's 32 and should be with a 25 year old.....like yourself. Hey.....I just got an idea.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She looks psycho as fvck. Wh0re bag for sure. On a scale of 0-1. she is a 0.
 
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If she was one of the last ones at the bar, I'd bang her. Ego aside, I'm nearly half her age and I'd tap it. Anyone that will reject her is just lying to themselves. Approval seeking is a b!tch, ain't it?
 

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Peaks&Valleys said:
Translation: I fvck on the first date....and I don't know how to use spell check.
This is what I think. Some of the sleaziest girls I know use PoF to shop around for more c0cks to ride, and they always put some line in there about how chaste they are, how they don't want to be used for just sex, how they're not looking for one night stands, etc.

Maybe it's for deniability if friends or family see their profiles. But it seems to me that when they put in there what good girls they are, it's code for "I am a raging wh0re, get with me for a cheap lay".
 

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BeginningDJ said:
Anyone that will reject her is just lying to themselves.
She is ugly as fvck. :down:
 

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she's not ugly at all. if i were single and she threw it at me she could get the **** without question. you can tell she's a slut. but she' snot hot enough to whre i'm going to work for it or put up with any stupid ass requirements and i call bull**** on her lookig younger than 40.

this is the woman that's going to hit the apex wall when she's 50 and there is NO one telling her she's cute
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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