"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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vincent40

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Cod3r said:
I don't know where you're at but....

I live in an apartment complex with students from Columbia, NYU, Baruch, ect...

Also, everytime I enter the subway I'm seeing at least 10 or so approachable females. During the course of a day and school, another 100 or so... Bryant Park, Tribeca, East Village.... where aren't HB's ? lol

I would even say 100-300 approachable females is an under-estimate


-Cod3r
lol. someone has soooo low standards
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ChrizZ

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lol, you should come to my town. Approaching here is pretty much impossible. 90% of the women here give you a one word answer, then look on the ground and try to walk away as fast as they can. People never cold approach here. I´m happy if I see an HB that is higher than a 7 because they r really rare here.
 

jcap

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these approachs you do,

don't want to be the sore thumb but its very retarded.

you actually pickup women this way? jumping in front of people?
 

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ME: Wow, you're pretty funky huh ?
HER: *Confused Look*
ME: *chuckling to myself*
HER: *Rolls eyes*
ME: LoL later

:rockon:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cod3r

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these approachs you do,

don't want to be the sore thumb but its very retarded.

you actually pickup women this way? jumping in front of people?
lol :rock: < -- I absolutely am in love with this guy



-Cod3r
 

greenlake

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cod3r, u're one crazy guy(in a good way). i remember u tried to take one of the japanese tourist's camera and walk away with it. hahah
 
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