"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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vincent40

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Cod3r said:
I don't know where you're at but....

I live in an apartment complex with students from Columbia, NYU, Baruch, ect...

Also, everytime I enter the subway I'm seeing at least 10 or so approachable females. During the course of a day and school, another 100 or so... Bryant Park, Tribeca, East Village.... where aren't HB's ? lol

I would even say 100-300 approachable females is an under-estimate


-Cod3r
lol. someone has soooo low standards
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ChrizZ

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lol, you should come to my town. Approaching here is pretty much impossible. 90% of the women here give you a one word answer, then look on the ground and try to walk away as fast as they can. People never cold approach here. I´m happy if I see an HB that is higher than a 7 because they r really rare here.
 

jcap

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these approachs you do,

don't want to be the sore thumb but its very retarded.

you actually pickup women this way? jumping in front of people?
 

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ME: Wow, you're pretty funky huh ?
HER: *Confused Look*
ME: *chuckling to myself*
HER: *Rolls eyes*
ME: LoL later

:rockon:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cod3r

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these approachs you do,

don't want to be the sore thumb but its very retarded.

you actually pickup women this way? jumping in front of people?
lol :rock: < -- I absolutely am in love with this guy



-Cod3r
 

greenlake

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cod3r, u're one crazy guy(in a good way). i remember u tried to take one of the japanese tourist's camera and walk away with it. hahah
 
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