"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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4 Rejections Back 2 Back

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Confidence was high today, especially since I've been working out and just looked too fresh today...

Anyway, I approached an HB9 and said "hello" with a smile and she didn't reply and kept walking forward and never turned around... wow

Next I approached HB8 and did the same thing with the same results...

Next I decided to scare the girl (HB8) and I jumped in front of her and introduced myself, she jumped back, then smiled and then said 'ok ok' and then walked away...

Finally, HB9 walking out of my apartment complex...

ME: Wow, you're pretty funky huh ?
HER: *Confused Look*
ME: *chuckling to myself*
HER: *Rolls eyes*
ME: LoL later

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Dunno why I posted this, some girls are just bvtchees and I find it funny beacuse they are so engrained to ignore everyone, its hilarious. Shields are super high in this city especially when on the street, wow the last girl was a real beeitch, that one actually made me tad annoyed


-Cod3r
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well done for trying though, I havn't the guts to do that so it's good to see someone actually *cold* approaching women!
 

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Keep it up yo, just the fact you have 4 HB8s to chat with in a day is lucky for you. See Location <=== ;)
 

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Your Daily Horoscope.

The mojo section of your chart is block today. Expect women to be unapproachable. Avoid chainsaws and other heavy logging equipment. Lucky number: 5.
 

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I see around 100 - 300 girls that are approachable (at least 7's) during an average day...

Approaching 4 isn't anything special, i haven't seriously approached in almost 9 months because well I am a habitual cheater and my girl dosen't deserve that :eek:opsss:

LMAO @ Charmed, Alaska ?? Ouch bro, u better take advantage when u see one !



-Cod3r
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Charm

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Cod3r,

They saying here goes, "In alaska you dont lose your girl, you lose your turn."
 

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LMAO, that's classic and even funnier because i'm sure its true



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ya well man girls have a lot of reasons to be skeptical about strangers

nothing new

just try a less alerting approach
 

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Cod3r said:
I see around 100 - 300 girls that are approachable (at least 7's) during an average day...
where the **** do you hang? I haven't seen that many in my entire life.
 

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"Wow, you're pretty funky huh?"

Lol, what were you thinking? Were you high?

Scaring will only work if you know the chick.. unless you are incredibly smooth. I mean what would you think of some chick you don't even know jumping out and trying to scare you. You would think WTF? This girl is a nut.

As for the other two girls that turned you down after a "Hello" they just seem like *****es, forget them. Maybe you should of followed it up with something. I mean did you honestly thing would run with the ball after hello? That is YOUR job.

Man: Hello.
Woman: Why hello there. My name is Rebecca want to come back to my place and ****?

..kind of thing doesn't really happen in reality. Wouldn't it be great though? Haha.

-No Fat Chicks
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"Wow, you're pretty funky huh?"

Lol, what were you thinking? Were you high?

Scaring will only work if you know the chick.. unless you are incredibly smooth. I mean what would you think of some chick you don't even know jumping out and trying to scare you. You would think WTF? This girl is a nut.

As for the other two girls that turned you down after a "Hello" they just seem like *****es, forget them. Maybe you should of followed it up with something. I mean did you honestly thing would run with the ball after hello? That is YOUR job.

Man: Hello.
Woman: Why hello there. My name is Rebecca want to come back to my place and ****?

..kind of thing doesn't really happen in reality. Wouldn't it be great though? Haha.
Wasn't really tryna pick them up, juss playin around bro... the last one was a beitch IMO tho, the way she rolled her eyes, if she was a dog I'd beat her in the head with a rolled up newspaper :yes:

where the **** do you hang? I haven't seen that many in my entire life.
Middle of New York City


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To be honest, cold approaching works best if you smile at the person, and then start talking AFTER she smiles back. If not, they're either in b!tchshield mode or not in the mood. It happens, every so often a girl will hit on me and I'll ignore it cus I have **** to do. Every so often I'll hit on a girl and she'll ignore me. I just assume she has **** to do and I move on.
 

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To be honest, cold approaching works best if you smile at the person, and then start talking AFTER she smiles back.
That's a great tip, look at that... I just learned something... i'm all smiles !


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Cod3r said:
Middle of New York City


-Cod3r
I'm in the city once in a while, and yeah, there are ALOT of good looking girls there. Not as many as you describe though, not approachable ones.

Any specific spot you're at?



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I don't know where you're at but....

I live in an apartment complex with students from Columbia, NYU, Baruch, ect...

Also, everytime I enter the subway I'm seeing at least 10 or so approachable females. During the course of a day and school, another 100 or so... Bryant Park, Tribeca, East Village.... where aren't HB's ? lol

I would even say 100-300 approachable females is an under-estimate


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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cod3r said:
I don't know where you're at but....

I live in an apartment complex with students from Columbia, NYU, Baruch, ect...

Also, everytime I enter the subway I'm seeing at least 10 or so approachable females. During the course of a day and school, another 100 or so... Bryant Park, Tribeca, East Village.... where aren't HB's ? lol

I would even say 100-300 approachable females is an under-estimate


-Cod3r
You're in school? That makes all the difference. Thanks for the reply, it clears up the numbers mystery.


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lol...i think that laughing 2 urself part sealed the deal. Like maybe she thought you were playing a joke on her or something. W/e doesnt matter, her loss. She could have been a LR but she missed her opportunity to be written about on the board, lol.

Whats happenin with ur approach journal thingy coder?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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