El Payaso
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
4 Reasons You Should Date A Single Mom
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
old_skoolr
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LOL Biggest load of crap I've ever read.
MillionBillionaire
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Lol.. they have fruit rollups ... that you will now pay for.
Ok let us read this...
"1. Single moms are mature"
Sure bro... Mature enough to have had a child out of wedlock, or to have divorced a man instead of actually trying to work out the problems, or mature enough to have had a child with an immature man who they could not stand to have an actual relationship with.
"2. They have fruit roll ups"
What? This makes no sense... Why is this even a reason? Looks like this guy could not come up with 4 good reasons for his little article so he just pulled one out of his arse.
In fact a single mom in the comments section wrote: "be the man and bring a box with you to share with the kids." So you are going to be the one expected to buy the fruit rollups.
"3. Single moms are very independent"
They may seem that way except most of them are dependent on government subsidies like WIC and food stamps. And as soon as you step in they will become dependent on you. Also "single moms are so busy they can only connect on a schedule" seem like a reason NOT to date them rather than a reason to date them.
"4. Single moms are patient committed and loyal"
So patient, committed, and loyal that they were able to create a stable and loving relationship with the father of their child... Oh... Wait....
"1. Single moms are mature"
Sure bro... Mature enough to have had a child out of wedlock, or to have divorced a man instead of actually trying to work out the problems, or mature enough to have had a child with an immature man who they could not stand to have an actual relationship with.
"2. They have fruit roll ups"
What? This makes no sense... Why is this even a reason? Looks like this guy could not come up with 4 good reasons for his little article so he just pulled one out of his arse.
In fact a single mom in the comments section wrote: "be the man and bring a box with you to share with the kids." So you are going to be the one expected to buy the fruit rollups.
"3. Single moms are very independent"
They may seem that way except most of them are dependent on government subsidies like WIC and food stamps. And as soon as you step in they will become dependent on you. Also "single moms are so busy they can only connect on a schedule" seem like a reason NOT to date them rather than a reason to date them.
"4. Single moms are patient committed and loyal"
So patient, committed, and loyal that they were able to create a stable and loving relationship with the father of their child... Oh... Wait....
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Her mistakes in life are your mistakes in your life.
Her baggage is your baggage.
Her children are your children.
Her Ex is your Ex.
The list goes on, on, and on.
You have heard about "Buy One, Get One Free" deals. With single moms, you buy a single mom, you get many free.
Her baggage is your baggage.
Her children are your children.
Her Ex is your Ex.
The list goes on, on, and on.
You have heard about "Buy One, Get One Free" deals. With single moms, you buy a single mom, you get many free.
reason to not date a single mother
you will bill for her mistake(the child)
you will still have to deal with the father
you will never be her priority, if you are then she is not a good mom and not a LTR material
you will have to deal with a child who normally will not like you
why waste time with her when there is younger hotter and childless woman around?
could keep going but meh I guess we all get the point
if the dude also have children too I could guess he find it ok, but still i'm not seeing any reason to even do so
you will bill for her mistake(the child)
you will still have to deal with the father
you will never be her priority, if you are then she is not a good mom and not a LTR material
you will have to deal with a child who normally will not like you
why waste time with her when there is younger hotter and childless woman around?
could keep going but meh I guess we all get the point
if the dude also have children too I could guess he find it ok, but still i'm not seeing any reason to even do so
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There's only 4 reasons to date a single mom? Wow. There's many more reasons to date a young childless woman.
Single moms are mature
Of course they are. They're also very independent and don't need men.
Single moms have Fruit Roll-Ups in their cabinets — at all times
This reason is irrelevant because I eat decent food.
Single moms are very independent.
I already covered this under the "mature" reason, so this one is irrelevant too.
Single moms are patient, committed and loyal
...to their children. They aren't so much with regards to the men they sleep with, due to High Score Theory. Some other dude (possibly the child's father) has the top spot. Therefore, every man under him is completely disposable.
So there are two reasons, and those reasons aren't very good. The only good reason to date a single mom is: Pump and Dump.
Single moms are mature
Of course they are. They're also very independent and don't need men.
Single moms have Fruit Roll-Ups in their cabinets — at all times
This reason is irrelevant because I eat decent food.
Single moms are very independent.
I already covered this under the "mature" reason, so this one is irrelevant too.
Single moms are patient, committed and loyal
...to their children. They aren't so much with regards to the men they sleep with, due to High Score Theory. Some other dude (possibly the child's father) has the top spot. Therefore, every man under him is completely disposable.
So there are two reasons, and those reasons aren't very good. The only good reason to date a single mom is: Pump and Dump.
This is the type of brainwashed jackass blue pill society WANTS you to be... 100% non-judgmental of women so that all women are free to be as fat, irresponsible, stupid, obnoxious and abusive as she wants without risk of rejection or retribution.
Blue pill society has been trying to manipulate men into accepting low quality, low hanging trash fruit for a long time. Blue pill society shames men for having any standards at all. You're a pig if you want a woman to be in shape and healthy. You're a creep if you want a woman to be young and attractive. You're a loser if you're single past a certain age. And it goes on...
Don't take the bait. Women are getting increasingly lazy and carefree around men because they know so many are brainwashed white knight beta drowns.. so thirsty and desperate that they would marry any cow to avoid being "alone".. because to be "alone" is to be a "failure" according to blue pill society.
CONVINCING MEN THEY NEED TO COMMIT TO WOMEN TO BE HAPPY IS THE MOST SUCCESSFUL CON JOB PULLED ON MEN TO DATE. And it allows loser women to get and keep men when they should be living with 20 cats.
Blue pill society has been trying to manipulate men into accepting low quality, low hanging trash fruit for a long time. Blue pill society shames men for having any standards at all. You're a pig if you want a woman to be in shape and healthy. You're a creep if you want a woman to be young and attractive. You're a loser if you're single past a certain age. And it goes on...
Don't take the bait. Women are getting increasingly lazy and carefree around men because they know so many are brainwashed white knight beta drowns.. so thirsty and desperate that they would marry any cow to avoid being "alone".. because to be "alone" is to be a "failure" according to blue pill society.
CONVINCING MEN THEY NEED TO COMMIT TO WOMEN TO BE HAPPY IS THE MOST SUCCESSFUL CON JOB PULLED ON MEN TO DATE. And it allows loser women to get and keep men when they should be living with 20 cats.
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LiveFreeX
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John Hughes did a good movie called DUTCH (1991) about a guy who has to go and pick up a single mom's kid and how much of a spoiled little sh1t he is. The movie is funny but IRL this little sh1t would be a fkin nightmare to have around and stuff never ends like it does in the movies. The number one reason not to date a single mom? Her kids.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
El Payaso
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Remember, you're not a "real man" if you decide to hook up with a fresh young college girl instead of a used up single momma.
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I am sofa king we todd it.
Skyline
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Just yesterday I was in the park and heard a loud crashing noising from the road not far from us. Me and my buddies went down and a girl with 4 other passengers jumped out of the car and began changing their front tire whilst yelling that "she just blew a tire."
In reality, she blew a tire by hitting a curb because she was going too fast around a really sharp turn. The turn was rated at 15 MPH and I'm assuming she took it at 20 MPH causing her to slam on the brakes, hit a curb, and risk her 3 other passengers.
She was just laughing and seemed like she didn't care. She kept laughing saying it was just a flat and I was just thinking, she could have jumped that curb into oncoming traffic and seriously hurt 4+ people because she didn't care.
Also, the damages to her car. Her front bumper is dented, tire blown, possible rim damage, control arm definitely bent, and her bushings are most likely cracked. That's on top of putting herself and 3 other people at risk. If she were to have hit someone that's definitely a law suit.
But she didn't care. If this is how most of women are being raised then I'm seriously worried.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
El Payaso
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Yup. A woman's main goal in life is to maximize her enjoyment with as little responsibility as possible.
MillionBillionaire
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Meanwhile the girl is thinking "Oh man.. whatever happened I know this wasn't MY fault. Stupid tire, stupid car. Oh well good thing these cucks are here to fix my car. Why are they taking so long to fix my car? WHAT IS THEIR PROBLEM. If xyz wasn't trying to talk to me of course this wouldn't of happened. This is ALL THEIR fault. Stupid men. I am the victum." "Gawd they are going sooooo slow, why won't they just STFU and fix the car already. Hopefully someone hot in a BMW can come and pick me up." "I'm hungry, someone better buy me lunch for all the trauma I am going through." "Good thing I'm sooo hot and they are soo stupid."
Meanwhile the guys are competing to see who can be the hero, the guy who looks up on google how to properly fix a flat tire or the guy that does all the muscle work or the guy that tries to comfort the girl. "Yea.. this will give me the much needed brownie points for sure.. I hope she will see how awesome I am and finally let me take her out on a date!"
JJRocker
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So I'm curious. Is it impossible to find a quality woman after she has a child? Ludicrous! That's just as bad as saying there are no quality women left period! Let the chumps fight over the table scraps like the dogs they are. While they are busy with bimborella there is a single mom at the Starbucks across from the daycare, you know the one driving the Lexus with the pants suit on the way to her law firm. Consider this of you want to trap an ally cat. Some chicken gizzards in the dumpster will work just fine. To trap the cougar you need to know its habits and habitat.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.