Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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4 foot 9 Rice running back - what is his sexual market value?

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http://ftw.usatoday.com/2013/10/4-foot-9-walk-on-running-back-earns-his-first-career-carry/

Why he is f'ed:

a) it is hard enough to get quality dates at 5'9 let alone a foot shorter.
b) people admire his courage, heart etc. but it is more sympathy - there's no status from being a feel good story

Why he might have hope:

a) he is famous now, hoes love fame, any GF he can attract becomes an instant minor celebrity
b) he could leverage his story into a career as a motivational speaker, he could earn millions of dollars possibly?

I like the kid, he brought a tear to my eye. What makes my blood boil is knowing that he faces a cruel uphill battle in the dating market.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Scormus said:
http://ftw.usatoday.com/2013/10/4-foot-9-walk-on-running-back-earns-his-first-career-carry/

Why he is f'ed:

a) it is hard enough to get quality dates at 5'9 let alone a foot shorter.
b) people admire his courage, heart etc. but it is more sympathy - there's no status from being a feel good story

Why he might have hope:

a) he is famous now, hoes love fame, any GF he can attract becomes an instant minor celebrity
b) he could leverage his story into a career as a motivational speaker, he could earn millions of dollars possibly?

I like the kid, he brought a tear to my eye. What makes my blood boil is knowing that he faces a cruel uphill battle in the dating market.
What makes my blood boil is that you think the dating market is the most important aspect of this guy's life. c'mon man....
 

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He'd have higher SMV than a 5'9" guy who constantly whines about his height, that's for sure.
 

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it is hard enough to get quality dates at 5'9 let alone a foot shorter.
No clue where this sh!t comes from. I'm 5' 9" and have no problems dating women 5'7" and under. Wouldn't really care to date a tall chick anyhow. What I have found is that very small girls (5'2" and under) want taller men (6'+).
 

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I'm 5'8 and have hooked up with girls 6'+

Blaming height is the biggest cop out there is.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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height is not the end of the world , most of men in the world are under 5.8 and all have women
 

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I wouldn't know, I don't date men.

Seriously though, looks, attitude and status/power. Which one do you think is most important
 

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It's not a copout but just calling it out that guys 6'1-6'4 have an advantage, all else held equal.

I wear lifts that make me appear 5'11 and seem to do a lot better with the lifts on, I don't think it's just my imagination.

I don't whine about it in real life. I'm not even sure its whining when I am merely seeing things as they are and not trying to make them what I want them to be.
 

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His only hope is to actually really contribute on the field, and not just be a "Rudy" story.

If he can do that he can have books about his life ghostwritten, be an inspirational speaker and gain fame and $ from the movie rights.

The fame plus dollars can get him laid like it helped Mini-me get laid.
 

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Scormus said:
His only hope is to actually really contribute on the field, and not just be a "Rudy" story.

If he can do that he can have books about his life ghostwritten, be an inspirational speaker and gain fame and $ from the movie rights.

The fame plus dollars can get him laid like it helped Mini-me get laid.
And that's all that he is -a "Rudy" story. With that said, there are some freaky chicks who like strangeness, and one - even a fairly decent looking one - may be interested.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dreesy said:
Blaming height is the biggest cop out there is.
Repped.

Never doubt the self deceptive powers of the human mind to avoid the imaginary pain that comes with trying and "failing."
 

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Rudy

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And that's all that he is -a "Rudy" story. With that said, there are some freaky chicks who like strangeness, and one - even a fairly decent looking one - may be interested.
Well here are reasons he could be more?

a) he can bench 315 pounds supposedly
b) he has a respectable 4.5 second 40 yard dash "on a good day"
c) 135 must be extremely muscular for his height
d) was high school valedictorian - so has much more brains than Rudy did which may help on the field and with his training methods

I hope he can actually contribute consistently in real games, when the outcome is in doubt (in ANY role), and not just be fielded in a Rudy context.

If he can do that, he has it made.

I'm also thinking he might get to meet people like Kobe and LeBron and Floyd Mayweather even if he is just a Rudy story and that could give him the ultimate social proof to help him pull?
 

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Having height helps, but a man isn't beholden to his shortcomings. You learn to overcome.
 
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