"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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4 C's, the reality

mrgoodstuff

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Hello all,

By nature I'm an industrious and hard working man. I'll find a way to earn what i want. I won't steal it or rob it. Outer image was not my top priority. It was more of work ethic. But lately some events have been happening to force me to see the power, the attraction and the influence of image and displays of wealth.

Mind you i like nice things when i can afford them. I like nice cars and stuff. But a congruent display of image and material items has never been part of my core.

Lets look at the 4 C's ( from Player Supreme )
1. Car
2. Crib
3. Clothes
4. Convo

My recent experience is with cars due to being force to ride Lyft.

There are the hard working types with a cash car or normal car... Then there have been guys with washed recent model years cars and their dress is a higher image.

The "higher image" guys can possibly be bigger bull ****ters. But their display does hit me with eye candy and i feel it makes my brain more suggestable. After seeing how it's affecting me it's cause me to reevaluate my thoughts.

So it forced me to realize the power and attraction of the 4 c's. It's a core concept that will pay you daily.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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nicksaiz65

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Combine that with a nice body and you're golden
 

Lynx nkaf

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Hello all,

By nature I'm an industrious and hard working man. I'll find a way to earn what i want. I won't steal it or rob it. Outer image was not my top priority. It was more of work ethic. But lately some events have been happening to force me to see the power, the attraction and the influence of image and displays of wealth.

Mind you i like nice things when i can afford them. I like nice cars and stuff. But a congruent display of image and material items has never been part of my core.

Lets look at the 4 C's ( from Player Supreme )
1. Car
2. Crib
3. Clothes
4. Convo

My recent experience is with cars due to being force to ride Lyft.

There are the hard working types with a cash car or normal car... Then there have been guys with washed recent model years cars and their dress is a higher image.

The "higher image" guys can possibly be bigger bull ****ters. But their display does hit me with eye candy and i feel it makes my brain more suggestable. After seeing how it's affecting me it's cause me to reevaluate my thoughts.

So it forced me to realize the power and attraction of the 4 c's. It's a core concept that will pay you daily.
Completely agree with Player Supreme

1.being chauffered
2.address/neighbourhood/out-of-sight frontage
3.tailored and classic/time-enduring clothing
4.courteous, charismatic leading social skills
 
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