"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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3sum anyone?

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Originally posted by biker_gixxer
Sorry bro, but based on my experience, I have to disagree with ya. I've had situations 'fall into my lap' on numerous occasions. Having a three sum was the 'last thing' I thought would happen, but it did...
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I'm not discounting that opportunities will present themselves, but it's always better to be gearing yourself up towards getting a person instead of expecting them to "fall in your lap" on a consistent basis.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by diablo
I'm not discounting that opportunities will present themselves, but it's always better to be gearing yourself up towards getting a person instead of expecting them to "fall in your lap" on a consistent basis.
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I can dig that. It's to bad girls into that won't come out and just say it, lol.
 
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I have found a couple of web sites that talk a little more about this. They all suggest that getting a girl who is "in one the plan" and going out to a bar and just chatting up girls in a casual way is the best plan. I think I'm gonna have to use that one....
 
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It has be a loong minute since the first time I have posted. Man, a lot has changed. I have had a situation that would have made many of the guys jealous LOL! I did "stumble" upon a very nice situation (the "stop looking" advice was only partially correct - I still had to put in work)- but STILL looking for some guidance on how to pick up the ladies on the fly. Chime in guys!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So after 5 years you're still looking to get a 3sum with the same girl you were with before? Or do you just pick up bi-girls like we do toilet paper.
 
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