diablo
Master Don Juan
I'm not discounting that opportunities will present themselves, but it's always better to be gearing yourself up towards getting a person instead of expecting them to "fall in your lap" on a consistent basis.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
3sum anyone?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
biker_gixxer
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I can dig that. It's to bad girls into that won't come out and just say it, lol.Originally posted by diablo
I'm not discounting that opportunities will present themselves, but it's always better to be gearing yourself up towards getting a person instead of expecting them to "fall in your lap" on a consistent basis.
intel200
Don Juan
I have found a couple of web sites that talk a little more about this. They all suggest that getting a girl who is "in one the plan" and going out to a bar and just chatting up girls in a casual way is the best plan. I think I'm gonna have to use that one....
intel200
Don Juan
BUMP! Its been a while
intel200
Don Juan
It has be a loong minute since the first time I have posted. Man, a lot has changed. I have had a situation that would have made many of the guys jealous LOL! I did "stumble" upon a very nice situation (the "stop looking" advice was only partially correct - I still had to put in work)- but STILL looking for some guidance on how to pick up the ladies on the fly. Chime in guys!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.