"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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3sum anyone?

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Originally posted by biker_gixxer
Sorry bro, but based on my experience, I have to disagree with ya. I've had situations 'fall into my lap' on numerous occasions. Having a three sum was the 'last thing' I thought would happen, but it did...
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I'm not discounting that opportunities will present themselves, but it's always better to be gearing yourself up towards getting a person instead of expecting them to "fall in your lap" on a consistent basis.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by diablo
I'm not discounting that opportunities will present themselves, but it's always better to be gearing yourself up towards getting a person instead of expecting them to "fall in your lap" on a consistent basis.
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I can dig that. It's to bad girls into that won't come out and just say it, lol.
 
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I have found a couple of web sites that talk a little more about this. They all suggest that getting a girl who is "in one the plan" and going out to a bar and just chatting up girls in a casual way is the best plan. I think I'm gonna have to use that one....
 
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It has be a loong minute since the first time I have posted. Man, a lot has changed. I have had a situation that would have made many of the guys jealous LOL! I did "stumble" upon a very nice situation (the "stop looking" advice was only partially correct - I still had to put in work)- but STILL looking for some guidance on how to pick up the ladies on the fly. Chime in guys!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So after 5 years you're still looking to get a 3sum with the same girl you were with before? Or do you just pick up bi-girls like we do toilet paper.
 
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