"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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3rd time this has happend help!

cola

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Your in the heat of the moment.. your feeling on her touching her kissing her she's sexy and she wants you... you feel on her and you get the panties off.. your feeling amazing..then its time to stick jimmy in the hole.. and he falls a sleep... god.. anything not this god.. take away a toe a finger but don't hand me erectile dysfunction.. 3 different times 3 different girls all attractive.. what's going on help me somebody
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Performance anxiety, it's not ED. Is this to be your first time? It happened to me with my first... she forgave me and we tried again a few days later. I just cleared my mind and let her get on top and take control for the first time... after that the problem went away.
 

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Hell no its not my first time I'm far from a virgin but this has happend 3x first time I never saw her again.. second time we tryed again and I was fine.. this time who knows the outcome..
 

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Hell no its not my first time I'm far from a virgin but this has happend 3x first time I never saw her again.. second time we tryed again and I was fine.. this time who knows the outcome..
 
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