Your in the heat of the moment.. your feeling on her touching her kissing her she's sexy and she wants you... you feel on her and you get the panties off.. your feeling amazing..then its time to stick jimmy in the hole.. and he falls a sleep... god.. anything not this god.. take away a toe a finger but don't hand me erectile dysfunction.. 3 different times 3 different girls all attractive.. what's going on help me somebody
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
3rd time this has happend help!
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Performance anxiety, it's not ED. Is this to be your first time? It happened to me with my first... she forgave me and we tried again a few days later. I just cleared my mind and let her get on top and take control for the first time... after that the problem went away.