35-42 yo chick at my gym is smoking hot, I'm 25, what to do?

[aldaris]

OMG!!! You're a reverse pervert!!!!

Somebody call "Adult Protection Services" (APS) and report this guy!!!!

america is the land of 180 degrees. by this i mean if it isn't accepted in america it is probably cool in most places, but if it is accepted in america it is probably considered vulgar and odd everywhere else. roman polanski had his way with a 13 year old and was enemy number 1 in america. he flees to france and becomes "roman the great".

http://query.nytimes.com/gst/fullpage.html?res=950DE4DB1339F932A35752C0A96F948260
oh, those wacky french.
Sexy and sullen, Lili wears a size 36 ''fillette'' (young girl), but her breasts are already those of a woman - as her low-cut outfit announces. Anxious to lose her virginity, she flirts with Maurice (Etienne Chicot), a jaded playboy of around 40, but only to a certain point. Reveling in her new desirability, Lili alienates her family, exasperates Maurice and finally succeeds in her goal of sexual initiation.

 

[j0n024]

Drum what's your problem? You are accusing people of being afc's when YOUR the one "Having," to listen to women and there "Creepy," problems. I know your a fitness trainer but still your the one that women go to to talk about there problems so dont accuse someone you dont know about being an AFC. Plus you say you will feel "Bad," if you broke up someone...how will you feel if some guy fvcked a girl you were going out with....will you still feel bad?

I say just go for it and be direct....ask her what she is doing friday night she blows you off hey at least you tried if you get in then make another post about what you should do on the date, BUT if she blows you off then Bass can listen to her complain about some guy hitting on her... I mean crazy that guys wanna fvck women...we live in a crazy world dont we!

 

[Jitterbug]

D&B, remember that you're in a quite different position to us, so your rule doesn't apply to most people. The gym is your workplace. "Don't sh!t where you eat" applies to you. If you try to pick up there, as a personal trainer, you'll be the creep. The gym is more like a fun/social/hobby place for the rest. I can't see what's wrong with initiating something with women there.

Btw I concur with j0n024. Why the hell are you listening to those broads biatching about guys hitting on them and taking them seriously? That's what chicks do. They're subcommunicating how much attention they're getting. When they try that around me, I just say "yeah yeah, I'm sure you got a lot of attention there" and change the subject. Listening to that crap is the job of the emotion tampon AFCs. Not ours.

 

[Drum&Bass]

thanx jitterbug I think your the ONLY one that does understand where I coming from about the whole situation and your right the gym is my workplace so I see things different than the rest of you. I guess I'm offering a different perspective.

I have to listen to women complain because its up to me to talk to members that harass other members or report it to my supervisors. I don't listen to them because I'm such a nice guy lol.

how will you feel if some guy fvcked a girl you were going out with....will you still feel bad?

ummm yea dude I would.

 

[Jitterbug]

I have to listen to women complain because its up to me to talk to members that harass other members or report it to my supervisors. I don't listen to them because I'm such a nice guy lol.

I see. Good that you're getting paid for it.