"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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31 Tips for Living

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Those are pretty good. The explanations don't help much because they are geared toward entreprneuers, but the basic points are pretty good.

Nice find.
 

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Damn those are good Ill post the basic ideas here and if anyone wants to read them in detail can click on the link

1. Say yes to your yearning.

2. Start a journal.

3. Write down your goals.

4. Visualize your success.

5. Create and read affirmations.

6. Evaluate your beliefs.

7. Do what you love.

8. Do something different every day.

9. Act "as if."

10. Go out and scare yourself.

11. Spend time in nature.

12. Accept all your feelings.

13. Finish unfinished business.

14. Get educated. Knowledge is power.

15. Accept and believe compliments.

16. Acknowledge your gifts.

17. Give up excuses.

18. Eliminate "I can'ts."

19. Accept confusion.

20. Know there is no "right" time.

21. Start small.

22. Say no when you mean no and yes when you mean yes.

23. Resist self-judgment.

24. Stay out of overwhelm.

25. Expect resistance.

26. Answer your "what ifs."

27. Practice patience.

28. Overcome the "not good enough" syndrome.

29. Ask for help.

30. Trust your instincts.

31. Treat yourself with tlc.
 

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excellent job at not doing better whyshy... I knew you weren't a DJ

Nice, I went back over ....(damnit can't delete my own threads but I have the option on the edit post page:p mods do ur job;)).... the idea and I think I'm gonna flood the board with quick tips
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
excellent job at not doing better whyshy... I knew you weren't a DJ
Thanks man, i always knew you had faith in me.:D :up: :woo: :cheer:
 

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your welcome, I'll hand out the ass-kicking when I know for a fact I'm not gonna kick your face in since your head is so far up yo ass:):down: :p

8==========================) :eek:
 

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Wow, your so cute when you talk dirty to me.:D :woo: :cheer:
 

Boner da Stoner

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when a dude starts calling me cute and I take it as a compliment I will give you head... because I would deserve it

but you know, I'd snap out of it and bite your **** off and be sent to prison
 
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