"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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31 Tips for Living

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Those are pretty good. The explanations don't help much because they are geared toward entreprneuers, but the basic points are pretty good.

Nice find.
 

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Damn those are good Ill post the basic ideas here and if anyone wants to read them in detail can click on the link

1. Say yes to your yearning.

2. Start a journal.

3. Write down your goals.

4. Visualize your success.

5. Create and read affirmations.

6. Evaluate your beliefs.

7. Do what you love.

8. Do something different every day.

9. Act "as if."

10. Go out and scare yourself.

11. Spend time in nature.

12. Accept all your feelings.

13. Finish unfinished business.

14. Get educated. Knowledge is power.

15. Accept and believe compliments.

16. Acknowledge your gifts.

17. Give up excuses.

18. Eliminate "I can'ts."

19. Accept confusion.

20. Know there is no "right" time.

21. Start small.

22. Say no when you mean no and yes when you mean yes.

23. Resist self-judgment.

24. Stay out of overwhelm.

25. Expect resistance.

26. Answer your "what ifs."

27. Practice patience.

28. Overcome the "not good enough" syndrome.

29. Ask for help.

30. Trust your instincts.

31. Treat yourself with tlc.
 

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excellent job at not doing better whyshy... I knew you weren't a DJ

Nice, I went back over ....(damnit can't delete my own threads but I have the option on the edit post page:p mods do ur job;)).... the idea and I think I'm gonna flood the board with quick tips
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
excellent job at not doing better whyshy... I knew you weren't a DJ
Thanks man, i always knew you had faith in me.:D :up: :woo: :cheer:
 

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your welcome, I'll hand out the ass-kicking when I know for a fact I'm not gonna kick your face in since your head is so far up yo ass:):down: :p

8==========================) :eek:
 

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Wow, your so cute when you talk dirty to me.:D :woo: :cheer:
 

Boner da Stoner

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when a dude starts calling me cute and I take it as a compliment I will give you head... because I would deserve it

but you know, I'd snap out of it and bite your **** off and be sent to prison
 
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