Hockey Playa
Master Don Juan
was the movie as good as u expected?? im seeing it 2morrow, what rating would u give it?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
It was good but not awesome, around 7/10 could have been WAY better.Hockey Playa said:was the movie as good as u expected?? im seeing it 2morrow, what rating would u give it?
Hockey Playa said:was the movie as good as u expected?? im seeing it 2morrow, what rating would u give it?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Oh my bad nevermind, but ya REAL SPARTANS would look like that since they start their training at age 7 and have military service till their 30s. Also they only keep the babies with most potential to become a warrior so weak ones are left... NOT THROWN into a pit. All they do is train for war, it's like doing cardio everyday and then eating a healthy diet only meats, veggs and fruits, non of them were BIG/JACKED like Arnold they were just cut and had some muscle.Celadus said:Yeah, Spartans. Sorry. I got it crossed with my example of Troy.
Real Spartans wouldn't have been all that ripped, so no, Its not that believable but good for the movie.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
what a bunch of girlsCeladus said:I thought it was pretty good. I was thinking it would be like Troy but with a lot more computer graphics and action but its different. I haven't seen Sin City and have never read a graphic novel. Hard to explain.
Some parts were pretty intense. In the first battle a line of Persians smash into the line of Spartans and feels like you are in the battle. Pretty emotional stuff. Defintiely suggest seeing this one in the theater. A lot of guys were walking out and looked like they were going to cry.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.