"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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JaegerPilot217

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I heard from a source that after a guy is 35 that is usually considered to old to attract and pull girls in their early 20's
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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JaegerPilot217 said:
I heard from a source that after a guy is 35 that is usually considered to old to attract and pull girls in their early 20's
I think that is generally true.

Young is often considered 18 to 34.

Yes, yes, I know there are some 35+ guys that can still pull it off, but I think Jäger is asking about a "general" rule.

Generally, the guy should LOOK <35. If he looks <30, all the better, as far as picking up 20somethings.
 

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Mike32ct said:
I think that is generally true.

Young is often considered 18 to 34.

Yes, yes, I know there are some 35+ guys that can still pull it off, but I think Jäger is asking about a "general" rule.

Generally, the guy should LOOK <35. If he looks <30, all the better, as far as picking up 20somethings.
yeah don't get me wrong, i'm not saying i'm trying to obey and follow what society says is right, i'm saying that women in their early 20's will no longer be attracted to men that age
 

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King Mays checking back in. The business I'm trying to put together is further along now. When I tested the business idea, it got a great response. So if I execute properly, it looks like ill get out of this mess I'm in.

My Situation: Let me explain, my teeth have stains or spots on them. My dentist says that when my teeth were growing in my mouth when I was young I was sick. Anybody ever heard of this happening to someone?

Anyways, back in my teens and 20s when I was talking to females (I think I had average convo skills then. I'm rusty now.), it seems nobody could notice the stains on my teeth indoors, but when i'm outside in the sunlight, it would be a problem especially if I smiled.

One time I was trying to game this chick and I said a joke, she laughed and I mistakenly smiled with all my teeth showing. I'll never forget that look she gave me. It went from laughter to horror in a instant. And that's not the only situation that has happened to me, so I have I guess formed the opinion that it was impossible to get girls until I got my teeth fix. Another thing is with me not having money at the moment, I don't want to get a girl pregnant and never be able to get my life back on track.

My Question: How do I overcome this problem with the stains on my teeth and females until I can get my teeth fix? One of my worries is that I'll develop a bad reputation, if I just endlessly get rejected to find one girl who somehow overlooks the teeth issue.

I know ya'll gonna rip into me. I really shouldn't be a virgin. I could of lost it at 16.


Started another thread here http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=218803
 

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King Mays said:
King Mays checking back in. The business I'm trying to put together is further along now. When I tested the business idea, it got a great response. So if I execute properly, it looks like ill get out of this mess I'm in.

My Situation: Let me explain, my teeth have stains or spots on them. My dentist says that when my teeth were growing in my mouth when I was young I was sick. Anybody ever heard of this happening to someone?

Anyways, back in my teens and 20s when I was talking to females (I think I had average convo skills then. I'm rusty now.), it seems nobody could notice the stains on my teeth indoors, but when i'm outside in the sunlight, it would be a problem especially if I smiled.

One time I was trying to game this chick and I said a joke, she laughed and I mistakenly smiled with all my teeth showing. I'll never forget that look she gave me. It went from laughter to horror in a instant. And that's not the only situation that has happened to me, so I have I guess formed the opinion that it was impossible to get girls until I got my teeth fix. Another thing is with me not having money at the moment, I don't want to get a girl pregnant and never be able to get my life back on track.

My Question: How do I overcome this problem with the stains on my teeth and females until I can get my teeth fix? One of my worries is that I'll develop a bad reputation, if I just endlessly get rejected to find one girl who somehow overlooks the teeth issue.

I know ya'll gonna rip into me. I really shouldn't be a virgin. I could of lost it at 16.


Started another thread here http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=218803
So still a virgin OP? This a big bump
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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