JaegerPilot217
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I heard from a source that after a guy is 35 that is usually considered to old to attract and pull girls in their early 20's
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I think that is generally true.JaegerPilot217 said:I heard from a source that after a guy is 35 that is usually considered to old to attract and pull girls in their early 20's
yeah don't get me wrong, i'm not saying i'm trying to obey and follow what society says is right, i'm saying that women in their early 20's will no longer be attracted to men that ageMike32ct said:I think that is generally true.
Young is often considered 18 to 34.
Yes, yes, I know there are some 35+ guys that can still pull it off, but I think Jäger is asking about a "general" rule.
Generally, the guy should LOOK <35. If he looks <30, all the better, as far as picking up 20somethings.
So still a virgin OP? This a big bumpKing Mays said:King Mays checking back in. The business I'm trying to put together is further along now. When I tested the business idea, it got a great response. So if I execute properly, it looks like ill get out of this mess I'm in.
My Situation: Let me explain, my teeth have stains or spots on them. My dentist says that when my teeth were growing in my mouth when I was young I was sick. Anybody ever heard of this happening to someone?
Anyways, back in my teens and 20s when I was talking to females (I think I had average convo skills then. I'm rusty now.), it seems nobody could notice the stains on my teeth indoors, but when i'm outside in the sunlight, it would be a problem especially if I smiled.
One time I was trying to game this chick and I said a joke, she laughed and I mistakenly smiled with all my teeth showing. I'll never forget that look she gave me. It went from laughter to horror in a instant. And that's not the only situation that has happened to me, so I have I guess formed the opinion that it was impossible to get girls until I got my teeth fix. Another thing is with me not having money at the moment, I don't want to get a girl pregnant and never be able to get my life back on track.
My Question: How do I overcome this problem with the stains on my teeth and females until I can get my teeth fix? One of my worries is that I'll develop a bad reputation, if I just endlessly get rejected to find one girl who somehow overlooks the teeth issue.
I know ya'll gonna rip into me. I really shouldn't be a virgin. I could of lost it at 16.
Started another thread here http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=218803
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.