"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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30 y.o. gals + Bars = ???

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al77, I totally know where you are coming from, you don't want a ho/barfly. This makes sense to me.

But I can honestly say I 've actually met 'some' decent chicks at bars that were 25 and over. They were decent to mess around w/ but I don't really let any of em get too close, I don't care where I met them. ( as kids are likely)Not yet anyway, maybe a few years down the road. I'm much happier staying single for now.

If you are hunting for a wife, perhaps look in church. JMHO.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by crowes22
al77, I totally know where you are coming from, you don't want a ho/barfly. This makes sense to me.

But I can honestly say I 've actually met 'some' decent chicks at bars that were 25 and over. They were decent to mess around w/ but I don't really let any of em get too close, I don't care where I met them. ( as kids are likely)Not yet anyway, maybe a few years down the road. I'm much happier staying single for now.

If you are hunting for a wife, perhaps look in church. JMHO.
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I agree with you about bars: there could be decent chicks. The problem is with bars, not with chicks: they are drunk, you are drunk and due to image associated with bars they probably have one of two things in mind: just flirting or ONS.
That's not what I really want from women.

The bar chick I was talking about had a wonderful profile that states directly
"....I am also told that I am a pretty decent cook. Family and friends are the most important part of my life but I am looking for a relationship with the right person that might lead to marriage".

Gee... I thought "she thinks about herself as a marriage material, lets find out....." and I find out that she starts her self-presentation from her love to bars... in next letter she said basically "sorry I am drunk now...can't come up with anything".
Really WTF? Just my rant about unmasked lies.......

Church? Hmm.. if they have time for meeting people, I would definitely check that out: at least quality should be better.
But there you pray 99% of the time and then is supposed to move to your car...why dont they drink together? Oh wait.. it would be like in bars then :)
 
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