"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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30 y.o. gals + Bars = ???

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al77, I totally know where you are coming from, you don't want a ho/barfly. This makes sense to me.

But I can honestly say I 've actually met 'some' decent chicks at bars that were 25 and over. They were decent to mess around w/ but I don't really let any of em get too close, I don't care where I met them. ( as kids are likely)Not yet anyway, maybe a few years down the road. I'm much happier staying single for now.

If you are hunting for a wife, perhaps look in church. JMHO.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by crowes22
al77, I totally know where you are coming from, you don't want a ho/barfly. This makes sense to me.

But I can honestly say I 've actually met 'some' decent chicks at bars that were 25 and over. They were decent to mess around w/ but I don't really let any of em get too close, I don't care where I met them. ( as kids are likely)Not yet anyway, maybe a few years down the road. I'm much happier staying single for now.

If you are hunting for a wife, perhaps look in church. JMHO.
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I agree with you about bars: there could be decent chicks. The problem is with bars, not with chicks: they are drunk, you are drunk and due to image associated with bars they probably have one of two things in mind: just flirting or ONS.
That's not what I really want from women.

The bar chick I was talking about had a wonderful profile that states directly
"....I am also told that I am a pretty decent cook. Family and friends are the most important part of my life but I am looking for a relationship with the right person that might lead to marriage".

Gee... I thought "she thinks about herself as a marriage material, lets find out....." and I find out that she starts her self-presentation from her love to bars... in next letter she said basically "sorry I am drunk now...can't come up with anything".
Really WTF? Just my rant about unmasked lies.......

Church? Hmm.. if they have time for meeting people, I would definitely check that out: at least quality should be better.
But there you pray 99% of the time and then is supposed to move to your car...why dont they drink together? Oh wait.. it would be like in bars then :)
 
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