3 Things the Woman You're Dating Wants You to Do

[old_skoolr]

I used to be the biggest beta in the world. I was so good at the romantic blue-pill stuff that it would get me some great looking women.

But the one thing nearly all of them said to me, usually sooner rather than later, was 'I don't know what I want'. They would actually tell me this, as if they needed me to help them with their confusion (looking back, they probably did). I think that's because I was giving them all the romance that women are traditionally supposed to crave, yet their DNA still wanted the r-selected alpha.

Some of them were ruthless and ditched me; some of them seemed to despise themselves for feeling that way. Yet, they all felt the same: unsatisfied. And none of them knew or could make sense of their desires - until one unbelievably confident sex-kitten that I was dating told me outright "you are not a man". That was the start of my red-pill journey.

Now, at this point in my life, at age twenty-nine, I generally know what works and what doesn't (still need reminding now and then). I know better than to try and adapt to what a woman thinks she wants. Women act first and rationalize second, and 99% of females really don't have a clue what causes attraction.

That article is not congruent to any reality that I have experienced. These are tips on becoming a better servant; where we should be focusing on becoming better men.

Congrats on the journey man, yeah I laugh when I read these guys dating advice from women.

Men will always ask "What do women want?"

The answer is always simple: Who cares!!!!

 

[YawataNoKami]

Rule of thumb: Never take dating advice from a woman.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Reminds me the fitness advices from the family doctor about what to eat to build muscle.

Plenty of carbs, no fat and few proteins but not twice a day...same quality of advice.