Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Ok guys... In the last two months I've gone from feeling in love, to losing my woman, to realizing she was not worth it, to overcoming my oneitis... the whole trip.

Now, during that time I've been hanging out with other women, two of whom are sisters who are both hot and fun, but who have a 3rd sister who is even hotter (and more interesting) that the other two. I was introduced to the third sister by the other two, and after some really good DJ moves managed to raise her IL and get her to go out on a date… it will be tomorrow actually :D

Now the dilemma is this: one of the sisters (not the one I want) has been expressing a LOT of interest in getting to know me better. I want to LJBF her without blowing the chance of dating her sister. Besides, these girls, the three of them, behave a lot like best friends. I mean, they have lots of common friends and hang out together a lot.

I am in “terra incognita”…any of my fellow DJs have been in a similar situation? Any suggestions?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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That was easy...

I was making a big deal out of nothing...

As soon as I started dating the one I wanted, the other sister cut the flirting and started LJBFing me... pretty cool... so I guess this thread is over.
 
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