"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ok guys... In the last two months I've gone from feeling in love, to losing my woman, to realizing she was not worth it, to overcoming my oneitis... the whole trip.

Now, during that time I've been hanging out with other women, two of whom are sisters who are both hot and fun, but who have a 3rd sister who is even hotter (and more interesting) that the other two. I was introduced to the third sister by the other two, and after some really good DJ moves managed to raise her IL and get her to go out on a date… it will be tomorrow actually :D

Now the dilemma is this: one of the sisters (not the one I want) has been expressing a LOT of interest in getting to know me better. I want to LJBF her without blowing the chance of dating her sister. Besides, these girls, the three of them, behave a lot like best friends. I mean, they have lots of common friends and hang out together a lot.

I am in “terra incognita”…any of my fellow DJs have been in a similar situation? Any suggestions?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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That was easy...

I was making a big deal out of nothing...

As soon as I started dating the one I wanted, the other sister cut the flirting and started LJBFing me... pretty cool... so I guess this thread is over.
 
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