"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ok guys... In the last two months I've gone from feeling in love, to losing my woman, to realizing she was not worth it, to overcoming my oneitis... the whole trip.

Now, during that time I've been hanging out with other women, two of whom are sisters who are both hot and fun, but who have a 3rd sister who is even hotter (and more interesting) that the other two. I was introduced to the third sister by the other two, and after some really good DJ moves managed to raise her IL and get her to go out on a date… it will be tomorrow actually :D

Now the dilemma is this: one of the sisters (not the one I want) has been expressing a LOT of interest in getting to know me better. I want to LJBF her without blowing the chance of dating her sister. Besides, these girls, the three of them, behave a lot like best friends. I mean, they have lots of common friends and hang out together a lot.

I am in “terra incognita”…any of my fellow DJs have been in a similar situation? Any suggestions?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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That was easy...

I was making a big deal out of nothing...

As soon as I started dating the one I wanted, the other sister cut the flirting and started LJBFing me... pretty cool... so I guess this thread is over.
 
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