"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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freshstartin2008

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I am absolutely certain, 110% all three want me. Two of them are younger (college gals). The third is older, early forties. All girls are hot. All have given indications they are highly interested.

One of the college gals, she runs with her social circle. I don't know any of them. Should I approach the girl while she is on her own, or while she is with her group?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ice882

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Girls are usually more relaxed and receptive when their alone.
 

Scars

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Wait, so you haven't even approached one yet you are %110 sure that they want you? Hmm.
 

Allurre

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Catch her when she's alone, and set up a date.

You're not dating her group afterall, only her.

It can't hurt to impress her circle of friends though -- but let your date be the one to spread the kudos.
 
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