"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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freshstartin2008

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I am absolutely certain, 110% all three want me. Two of them are younger (college gals). The third is older, early forties. All girls are hot. All have given indications they are highly interested.

One of the college gals, she runs with her social circle. I don't know any of them. Should I approach the girl while she is on her own, or while she is with her group?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ice882

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Girls are usually more relaxed and receptive when their alone.
 
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Wait, so you haven't even approached one yet you are %110 sure that they want you? Hmm.
 
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Allurre

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Catch her when she's alone, and set up a date.

You're not dating her group afterall, only her.

It can't hurt to impress her circle of friends though -- but let your date be the one to spread the kudos.
 
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