"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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3 good responses from online PU, how do I avoid MSN trap?

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Guitar_Whizz

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Alright guys, so I messaged a load of girls on faceparty.com from my home town last night with the following message:-

" Hey XXXX,

I read your profile and you seem pretty cool.. I am also into A, B, and C and looking for friends who are on the same page. Just wondering what other stuff you are into and what makes you smile. Hit me back when you can and tell me a little more about yourself.

Sincerely Curious,

Guitar Whizz "

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I got 3 replies out of about 6 or 7........

REPLY FROM HB #1
u seem really nice and yea we can be friends. i have a boyfriend and he makes me really happy. my life is boring never anything to do. im just lookin for a job at the moment but its not easy. i like to go to the pub and play pool. i have a laugh on a site called playray but i mostly just go on msn. how about urself

REPLY FROM HB #2
hiya hun thanks 4 ur message i jst thought i wud let u no that im not that good, bt if u still wonner chat then pass me ur addy an we will chat on there. x.x.x. talk soon love nat.x.x.x.x


REPLY FROM HB #3
heyyyy
if u got messenger...add me [email protected] Smile (Email address edited for privacy!)

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It looks like I'm in the friends zone with HB#1, and the other 2 want to talk on MSN - should I say that I don't have time to chat on MSN and instead number close? Or should I message them a few times first and get a bit of rapport before number closing? Or should I say I'm not looking for a relationship but I want to meet for casual sex?

Any thoughts on how to respond?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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bigshot

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nooooooo IM is evil believe me! Do not under any circumstances chat 2 a woman u are interested in via IM...unless of course u are in a LTR with that woman.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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They all sound as if they want to be "friends" to me.
 
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Someone Much cooler

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word, I play around wit chicks online, kinda for fun, practice, and experiments. here is my message ..........
-hey whats up, i like your profile, your very pretty. too bad you don't have more about yourself on there, oh well i guess i will have to find out for myself ;)

it really works well, and it passivly says you like em. try it. ps damn msn, i talk to em where i meet em or I # close, or i forget them.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sandman6991

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MSN is NOT evil at ALL. If you can play MSN right, it's the best tool you can possibly have for girls with which you met online.
 
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