"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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3 good responses from online PU, how do I avoid MSN trap?

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Guitar_Whizz

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Alright guys, so I messaged a load of girls on faceparty.com from my home town last night with the following message:-

" Hey XXXX,

I read your profile and you seem pretty cool.. I am also into A, B, and C and looking for friends who are on the same page. Just wondering what other stuff you are into and what makes you smile. Hit me back when you can and tell me a little more about yourself.

Sincerely Curious,

Guitar Whizz "

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I got 3 replies out of about 6 or 7........

REPLY FROM HB #1
u seem really nice and yea we can be friends. i have a boyfriend and he makes me really happy. my life is boring never anything to do. im just lookin for a job at the moment but its not easy. i like to go to the pub and play pool. i have a laugh on a site called playray but i mostly just go on msn. how about urself

REPLY FROM HB #2
hiya hun thanks 4 ur message i jst thought i wud let u no that im not that good, bt if u still wonner chat then pass me ur addy an we will chat on there. x.x.x. talk soon love nat.x.x.x.x


REPLY FROM HB #3
heyyyy
if u got messenger...add me [email protected] Smile (Email address edited for privacy!)

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It looks like I'm in the friends zone with HB#1, and the other 2 want to talk on MSN - should I say that I don't have time to chat on MSN and instead number close? Or should I message them a few times first and get a bit of rapport before number closing? Or should I say I'm not looking for a relationship but I want to meet for casual sex?

Any thoughts on how to respond?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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nooooooo IM is evil believe me! Do not under any circumstances chat 2 a woman u are interested in via IM...unless of course u are in a LTR with that woman.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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They all sound as if they want to be "friends" to me.
 
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Someone Much cooler

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word, I play around wit chicks online, kinda for fun, practice, and experiments. here is my message ..........
-hey whats up, i like your profile, your very pretty. too bad you don't have more about yourself on there, oh well i guess i will have to find out for myself ;)

it really works well, and it passivly says you like em. try it. ps damn msn, i talk to em where i meet em or I # close, or i forget them.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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sandman6991

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MSN is NOT evil at ALL. If you can play MSN right, it's the best tool you can possibly have for girls with which you met online.
 
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