"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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3 good responses from online PU, how do I avoid MSN trap?

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Guitar_Whizz

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Alright guys, so I messaged a load of girls on faceparty.com from my home town last night with the following message:-

" Hey XXXX,

I read your profile and you seem pretty cool.. I am also into A, B, and C and looking for friends who are on the same page. Just wondering what other stuff you are into and what makes you smile. Hit me back when you can and tell me a little more about yourself.

Sincerely Curious,

Guitar Whizz "

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I got 3 replies out of about 6 or 7........

REPLY FROM HB #1
u seem really nice and yea we can be friends. i have a boyfriend and he makes me really happy. my life is boring never anything to do. im just lookin for a job at the moment but its not easy. i like to go to the pub and play pool. i have a laugh on a site called playray but i mostly just go on msn. how about urself

REPLY FROM HB #2
hiya hun thanks 4 ur message i jst thought i wud let u no that im not that good, bt if u still wonner chat then pass me ur addy an we will chat on there. x.x.x. talk soon love nat.x.x.x.x


REPLY FROM HB #3
heyyyy
if u got messenger...add me [email protected] Smile (Email address edited for privacy!)

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It looks like I'm in the friends zone with HB#1, and the other 2 want to talk on MSN - should I say that I don't have time to chat on MSN and instead number close? Or should I message them a few times first and get a bit of rapport before number closing? Or should I say I'm not looking for a relationship but I want to meet for casual sex?

Any thoughts on how to respond?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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bigshot

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nooooooo IM is evil believe me! Do not under any circumstances chat 2 a woman u are interested in via IM...unless of course u are in a LTR with that woman.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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They all sound as if they want to be "friends" to me.
 
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Someone Much cooler

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word, I play around wit chicks online, kinda for fun, practice, and experiments. here is my message ..........
-hey whats up, i like your profile, your very pretty. too bad you don't have more about yourself on there, oh well i guess i will have to find out for myself ;)

it really works well, and it passivly says you like em. try it. ps damn msn, i talk to em where i meet em or I # close, or i forget them.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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sandman6991

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MSN is NOT evil at ALL. If you can play MSN right, it's the best tool you can possibly have for girls with which you met online.
 
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