"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Vodkaholic

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Ill make this short and sweet. Im doing a course (for the last month) and Ive developed an enormous crush on the teacher. Im pretty sure ses`s older than me. Im 23 so Id say shes about 26, 27 any way , normally my crushes go away after a few weeks, but this one seems to be staying.

But Im too fVcking shy to ask her out or whatever or tell her how I feel.


Ok, before you guys call me a AFC, I think shes attracted to me aswell because whenever she`s standing up she always seems to be facing me and she always makes eye contact with me and.......

sorry Im droning on a bit, anyway she`s normally chirpey and carefree but today she seemed a little pissed, and for some reason I started feeling guilty!

Anyway as soon as I became aware of my emotion, I quickly supressed it.

Im a firm beliver in the fact that if you find a woman 100% attractive, you will never lay her. You must always be turned off by a few little things, and that is the case with her.

Well, I didn't keep it short but I hope it was sweet.
Any advisr?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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its not that simple
 

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If she's your teacher i would leave it. Could cause too many problems, just concentrate on the other 3 billion women out there.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Vodkaholic
its not that simple
If it's not that simple then leave it alone. Too many barriers to cross. And that kind of shyt only happens in the movies.

She could lose her job by fawking with you. Lose her tenor and professional standing.

Her job is to smile at you and make you feel comfortable so you can learn.

And crushes are for girls. Females get crushes. Men we get lust. Unless your one of the modern conditioned feminine men that are running around.
 

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Originally posted by jonny football hero
If she's your teacher i would leave it. Could cause too many problems, just concentrate on the other 3 billion women out there.
and millions of them are babies or too young for him, and he might not like alot of them or they might not like him which cuts down to 2 to 1 billion, and you won't find all of them, and which brings down to millions and then it cuts down to thousands because meeting millions will take ages.
 
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