"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ill make this short and sweet. Im doing a course (for the last month) and Ive developed an enormous crush on the teacher. Im pretty sure ses`s older than me. Im 23 so Id say shes about 26, 27 any way , normally my crushes go away after a few weeks, but this one seems to be staying.

But Im too fVcking shy to ask her out or whatever or tell her how I feel.


Ok, before you guys call me a AFC, I think shes attracted to me aswell because whenever she`s standing up she always seems to be facing me and she always makes eye contact with me and.......

sorry Im droning on a bit, anyway she`s normally chirpey and carefree but today she seemed a little pissed, and for some reason I started feeling guilty!

Anyway as soon as I became aware of my emotion, I quickly supressed it.

Im a firm beliver in the fact that if you find a woman 100% attractive, you will never lay her. You must always be turned off by a few little things, and that is the case with her.

Well, I didn't keep it short but I hope it was sweet.
Any advisr?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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its not that simple
 

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If she's your teacher i would leave it. Could cause too many problems, just concentrate on the other 3 billion women out there.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Vodkaholic
its not that simple
If it's not that simple then leave it alone. Too many barriers to cross. And that kind of shyt only happens in the movies.

She could lose her job by fawking with you. Lose her tenor and professional standing.

Her job is to smile at you and make you feel comfortable so you can learn.

And crushes are for girls. Females get crushes. Men we get lust. Unless your one of the modern conditioned feminine men that are running around.
 

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Originally posted by jonny football hero
If she's your teacher i would leave it. Could cause too many problems, just concentrate on the other 3 billion women out there.
and millions of them are babies or too young for him, and he might not like alot of them or they might not like him which cuts down to 2 to 1 billion, and you won't find all of them, and which brings down to millions and then it cuts down to thousands because meeting millions will take ages.
 
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