"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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2nd Date

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RSanders219

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Ok guys, so I took this girl out for a second date. We walked around the city, checked out some stores and all that. The vibe seemed pretty good, lots of good eye contact and conversation. I decided to give her a kiss goodnight when I walked her to her dorm. She smiled and gave me sort of a flirty touch on the arm. I think it all went over pretty well, and I have some other girls to hit up in the meantime. Just wondering when I should establish a 3rd date with this girl? How long do you guys usually wait? Thanks!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's time to stop taking her out on "dates." She is already into you; spending more time talking to her and walking around and whatever the hell else you plan on doing on "date 3" isn't going to increase her attraction. In fact, you'll probably drive her away if you wait too long to make a move!

What does that mean? It means you need to take things up a notch! You kissed her last time; this time, go for more. That's not gonna happen with you two going out to play mini-golf, so how about you just invite her over to your place? The way you get her there is up to you; be it (perhaps under the guise) of a movie, cooking her dinner, whatever...you need to isolate her so you can escalate.

As for how long to wait; my advice is to strike while the iron is hot. She's hot for you, so strike that damn iron!
 
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