"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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2nd Date

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Ok guys, so I took this girl out for a second date. We walked around the city, checked out some stores and all that. The vibe seemed pretty good, lots of good eye contact and conversation. I decided to give her a kiss goodnight when I walked her to her dorm. She smiled and gave me sort of a flirty touch on the arm. I think it all went over pretty well, and I have some other girls to hit up in the meantime. Just wondering when I should establish a 3rd date with this girl? How long do you guys usually wait? Thanks!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's time to stop taking her out on "dates." She is already into you; spending more time talking to her and walking around and whatever the hell else you plan on doing on "date 3" isn't going to increase her attraction. In fact, you'll probably drive her away if you wait too long to make a move!

What does that mean? It means you need to take things up a notch! You kissed her last time; this time, go for more. That's not gonna happen with you two going out to play mini-golf, so how about you just invite her over to your place? The way you get her there is up to you; be it (perhaps under the guise) of a movie, cooking her dinner, whatever...you need to isolate her so you can escalate.

As for how long to wait; my advice is to strike while the iron is hot. She's hot for you, so strike that damn iron!
 
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