“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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2nd date or next?

Broo

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Been getting mixed signals from a girl I like recently, she's from the highschool I went to, but we recently got to know each other because of our line of work. She would act flakey when I ask her out. I felt that she wasn't just into me. But recently things started changing because I wasn't pursuing her as much as before. I asked her out again and she said she'll update me.

At this point I wasn't really sure if she was going to text or not. I asked one week before, and we were supposed to go out the following Thursday. She texted Monday afternoon, and told me she was free. I told her I'd pick her up at her house, and she agreed and gave me her address.

I do know that her attraction is low, because she kept on testing me, because I was acting like such a p*ssy all this time, and was chasing after her. I read somewhere that a woman would sometimes change up the plans because of her low interest. She wanted to meet outside instead. I didn't flinch I told her don't worry she'll be ready by the time I get to her house by 7pm. She then asked if I was sure because her mom wouldn't let her go out anymore if she got to her house by dinner time. I told her, "if you're mom's not going to let you go out, I'll ask your mom out instead!" It worked! She suddenly changed her mind. And next thing, she asks me if she could park her car at my house. She then came to my house yesterday night and I drove to our date.

During the date I was reading her levels of interest, I was a bit put off at first because she kept on checking her cellphone. I told her jokingly to put it away and then she did. I was asking questions and she kept on talking the whole date and I listened, she was sharing stuff about her family, friends and our conversation was very light and fun. When she got home she told me she enjoyed our conversation yesterday night. I haven't talked to her since last night, and I'm still contemplating whether go out with her again or not. Am i just reading too much into this or do I just go out with her and try to have much fun as I can?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Eh. If you have other girls you are looking to go out with, by all means go out with them. This girl is nothing to wait around for. I would go cold out of sheer disinterest. I know the type of girl you're talking about. They don't exactly make your dıck shoot orange sparks of passion. Look for something better that gets your blood pumping.
 

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Broo said:
When she got home she told me she enjoyed our conversation yesterday night. I haven't talked to her since last night, and I'm still contemplating whether go out with her again or not.
2nd date. But not in any hurry.


You now know how to warm this person up in conversation, try to escalate with kino and a kiss. If she becomes flaky or gives you the cheek tell her to shape up or ship out. You dont have time for games.

It seems your doing ok, it really depends on how responsive she is during the next date, assuming there is one. Maybe focus on someone else for now who isnt so so.
 
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