"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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2nd date is finally over........wow, tell me what ya think

TheWanderer

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So, I picked her (hb9) up at 2:30. We drove around until like 4:30 because we couldnt find something to do, it was cool tho, we had fun talking. Then we go back to her house, and what a mistake i made, let her call friends and they came over. So then it was me, her, this other chick (about a 6.5), and this other dude. So we just kinda hung out at her place, and then we drove around.

Anyways, I let this dude drive, and me and her took the backseat. WHile in the back seat, I got really close to her, and slowly moved my hand from next to her, to on her knee. I slowly moved it up her thigh and I ended about an inch away from heaven. So I was just rubbing her thigh and she put her hand on mine just like helpin me rub her.

Then when we got back to her house, we all laid in her bed. I was next to her, so once again, my hand was all up on her thighs........and ass, and back. Then me and this dude left at 10 (her father's orders) and she wouldnt let go of my hand as I drove off, I had to step on the gas for her to let go (she was all like "i dont want u to go" so I was like "ill be back" and she was like "ya, but i want u here now"). lol

Anyways, I didn't go for a kiss because of her friends, they were major ****blocks, and they would try to pull her away from me at times, but just messin with me. But ya, I was rubbin her like when they couldnt see it. But, idk, I'm not an expert, but wouldnt ya'll say I'm in with this girl? I figured if a woman lets u rub her thighs so close to her pu$$y, then its a green light. I guess all I gotta do is get the 2 of us alone.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Here's what I think.

1. When you go on a date, you should have something definite in mind before you get there. Just driving and talking can be alright, but not as fun as seeing some fireworks or beating her ass in pool. Also, driving around for two hours wastes a ridiculous amount of $2.09/gallon gas. If you want to talk, I'd just turn off the engine and do it for free.

2. "Make the ho say no". Next time you see her, keep escalating things physicially until she rejects you hard. Definitely don't wait three dates before getting a kiss, I've made that mistake before in my AFC past. Girls want to be kissed on the first date.

-Dan
 

TheWanderer

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I get what ur sayin, thanx man. But also, It was impossible to make a move with those ****blocks. But now I know I got the green light to make a move, and rubbing her thigh was like making a move, I mean, wouldn't that let her know my interest?
 

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Definitely man, haha you're set. Even though you didn't get that kiss in, you made her know that you were interested. You even said that when you drove off she was practically begging you to stay. That should make for a very interesting 3rd date.

Also, I'd try to organize the date a little better next time. Maybe go over to her house or yours and watch a movie. Like he said..gas is a little expensive these days :/ Nice job though
 

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I understand her friends were ****blocking you, you could still have kissed her while you two were in the back seat. Otherwise
you should have had something planned to do, I know im bad at it too, but it makes things go smoother. What kind of a dad has she got making you get out of there at 10, retardedness, u gotta bone her soon to get back at him :D. I think you have a proper green light, continue until she stops u. Then push her limits a bit further and then again and again.

U lot moaning abut expensive petrol a) its your bloody state laws on different refinaries meaning you cant ship surpluss across the borders b)its not expensive, you dont get taxed on it. I think we need a carbon tax.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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