Prologue: A week ago I went on a first date with a HB7.5. We did the whole coffee and conversation thing. It cost me 4 bucks, lasted 2 hours, and I kissed her on the cheek and said I'd see her again.
Yesterday: She and I had our second date. I picked her up and we went to a modern art museum (free admission on Thursdays). I had to park a couple blocks away, so as we're walking (no kino up to this point), I exclaim, "Where are my manners?" and offer her my arm. She takes it.
We wander around the museum for 50 minutes or so. We're making small-talk, but I'm bored out of my mind and I suspect she was too - modern art might be art, but a lot of it looks like something I could do in 5 minutes. Anyway, there were various rooms with weird films playing on a loop (other examples of modern art) so I wander in one, and she's kind of standing at the entrance to it. I tell her to come to me, she does, I pull her to me for a kiss (expecting a dull, "sensuous" kiss) but she goes right for the tongue. We tongue for a little bit, and then I suggest we get out of there and get a bite to eat.
We drive a little bit and find a cute, not too expensive ethnic restaurant. We order, make some conversation, eat, and leave. As we're driving back to her building, I tell her we should park and neck for a little while. Not smooth, but read some of my other posts - I am not a smooth operator. Anyway, she says, "OR we could go up to X floor." There was a lounge on the top floor of her building. Even better, I say.
We park, take the elevator up, and lo! A bunch of Asian tenants are playing ping pong. I then see the laundry room so I point at it, go in and she follows. We spend a few minutes looking at the nice view, and then we go back into this little alcove, and start making out fairly heavily. We're both still decked in winter gear, so feeling up didn't go so well, but she seemed into it. We probably made out for 15-20 minutes, stopping every time someone came in to do laundry (once or twice) and making innocent small-talk.
Eventually I decided to go. I had class the next morning and she had work. I tell her to walk me down, she does, we make out in the lobby for a little bit and agree to do something again soon.
My question - I was frankly a bit surprised that she was so open to tonguing. In my experience, I always thought that good girls at least feign a little initial restraint, and she seems like a good girl. Should I have invited myself into her apartment, or was I correct by 'leaving her wanting more'?
Advice appreciated.
By the way, let me add my voice to the chorus of voices which states personality can trump looks. I'm not ugly, but I'm not a good-looking guy, and she was pretty hot.
Yesterday: She and I had our second date. I picked her up and we went to a modern art museum (free admission on Thursdays). I had to park a couple blocks away, so as we're walking (no kino up to this point), I exclaim, "Where are my manners?" and offer her my arm. She takes it.
We wander around the museum for 50 minutes or so. We're making small-talk, but I'm bored out of my mind and I suspect she was too - modern art might be art, but a lot of it looks like something I could do in 5 minutes. Anyway, there were various rooms with weird films playing on a loop (other examples of modern art) so I wander in one, and she's kind of standing at the entrance to it. I tell her to come to me, she does, I pull her to me for a kiss (expecting a dull, "sensuous" kiss) but she goes right for the tongue. We tongue for a little bit, and then I suggest we get out of there and get a bite to eat.
We drive a little bit and find a cute, not too expensive ethnic restaurant. We order, make some conversation, eat, and leave. As we're driving back to her building, I tell her we should park and neck for a little while. Not smooth, but read some of my other posts - I am not a smooth operator. Anyway, she says, "OR we could go up to X floor." There was a lounge on the top floor of her building. Even better, I say.
We park, take the elevator up, and lo! A bunch of Asian tenants are playing ping pong. I then see the laundry room so I point at it, go in and she follows. We spend a few minutes looking at the nice view, and then we go back into this little alcove, and start making out fairly heavily. We're both still decked in winter gear, so feeling up didn't go so well, but she seemed into it. We probably made out for 15-20 minutes, stopping every time someone came in to do laundry (once or twice) and making innocent small-talk.
Eventually I decided to go. I had class the next morning and she had work. I tell her to walk me down, she does, we make out in the lobby for a little bit and agree to do something again soon.
My question - I was frankly a bit surprised that she was so open to tonguing. In my experience, I always thought that good girls at least feign a little initial restraint, and she seems like a good girl. Should I have invited myself into her apartment, or was I correct by 'leaving her wanting more'?
Advice appreciated.
By the way, let me add my voice to the chorus of voices which states personality can trump looks. I'm not ugly, but I'm not a good-looking guy, and she was pretty hot.