2nd Chance with my ex

[Hockey Playa]

I broke up with my ex about a year ago, had pretty bad oneitis, after we broke up, got pretty depressed. But its true, that time heals everything, i wheeled other girls. I thought of her from time to time. Anyways I didn't see her for 8 months. We talked about getting together, on friendly basis a couple of time , but it never happened. Well we had more contact lately, and we finally hung out. We were both a couple beers deep, but it felt like absolutely nothing had changed. It felt like we were back together again. We ended up making out on my bed...Anyways we made plans that night, to hang out the next 2 nights, but she flaked on both of them...How should i approach this, assuming my goal is to get back together with her...Should i act disinterested, and make her iniate the next get together?

 

[dude156]

make her initiate the next get together, if she doesnt seem interested at all its not worth it, she possibly might just want to hook up with you from time to time but this is a tricky one, depends on how long you guys dated, if it was for a long time (i.e. 1 year or more) then there could be a chance, if not your going to have to observe if she is interested or not

 

[Hockey Playa]

btw do u think its wrong for a highschool studen to date a 1st year uni? Considering we live like 5 mins apart

 

[Docs]

1. She flaked because she let herself fall for you, (and you should know how much of a nono that is for a girl), so at the moment, she's honestly all fuggled up over you. If you still can talk to her (by phone or what not), the number one thing NOT TO DO is to bring it up again. Rather, be aloof, fluff her up, flirt/tease mildly again, and [Keyword] 'invite' her to do something. That means "Hey, I was heading out to do...___, and I was just wondering if you'd like to tag along". She declines, dont' worry about it, she joins in, you got yourself a little date again.

2. No, perfectly fine