"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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2nd base

Shapoopie

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If somebody told a girl they knew as a friend, "You know, we've never been to second base..."

What would the most likely outcome be? If this isn't a good option to say, what is?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dannowillbookem

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haha we're getting down to desperate points here. the girl would reply "uhm okay" or "HAHAHAH" or "yeah duh"

it definetly wouldnt be "oh thank you for showing that you want me! here, put your hands on my breasts!!"


no one line will turn a friend into a lover. its a beahvior thing, over time etc. theres a million and a half threads on it.
 

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I wasn't specifically looking for a out-of-friend-zone line, I just thought it up and wondered what would happen.

curiosity won't kill this cat XD a message board user maybe, not curiosity
 

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"...and we are never going to go there"

Followed by a very stern speech that would put the guy in his place as her brother and how going to "second base" would be like incest.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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kev me723

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duuuuude PLEASE never in your life say that to anyone. ever. don't talk about it, do it if you want to.
 
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