"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Discussion of prostitution has nothing to do with the stated purpose of the forum. The use of prostitutes required no seduction and therefore is prohibited.


But tackling this from the perspective of addictions, some addictions cant be superated until you have hit rock bottom. You have also have to put in a lot of work, as you would to overcome any other addiction.

"Be stronger than your excuses"
 

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Honestly OP don't take this the wrong way but I would suggest therapy with a counselor who specializes in sex addiction. I quit porn cold turkey 6 years ago and I felt like you in the sense that I started to view women as objects and truly get annoyed by them other than sex. Quiting the porn part was actually easy but viewing women as human beings and not object was a bit harder. Your issues won't go away OP if you don't see professional help they will get worst

I hope you get the help you need
 
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