"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
28 year old... will it be tight? she has kids.
- Thread starter MAVER1CK
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Jake-inator
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Why don't you go find out and tell us.
Teen Spirit
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
[21:08:37] peacockbass 96: i took the 28 year old shooting today
[21:08:42] peacockbass 96: and shes like a 7-8
[21:08:53] peacockbass 96: body is a 9
[21:09:22] piranha45X: thats good
[21:09:31] piranha45X: you make out or was it 100% innocent?
[21:09:57] peacockbass 96: heh. no action
[21:10:07] peacockbass 96: but she was giving me hints and ****
[21:10:12] peacockbass 96: so next time should be something
[21:10:25] piranha45X: did you bust a move, or did you just wanna play it safe?
[21:10:34] peacockbass 96: play it safe.
[21:10:45] peacockbass 96: it was fun though
[21:10:51] peacockbass 96: ill bust something out next time if it feels right.
[21:12:27] piranha45X: you inquire on don juan?
[21:12:54] piranha45X: you should ask them if they'd gauge a typical 29 yr old as being pretty loose or not
[21:13:04] peacockbass 96: hmm
[21:13:08] peacockbass 96: that might be a good idea
[21:14:17] piranha45X: i mean she might be wondering "god damn is this guy a prude or what?!" for all u really kno
[21:14:21] piranha45X: so yeah i'd get on that post..
[21:15:08] peacockbass 96: (Link: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=76207)http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=76207
[21:16:33] piranha45X: cool, ill be checking that to see what they say
do you guys speculate the chick is gonna put out fast and easy for him, or not?
Alpine
Master Don Juan
Not with your size knob
Alpine
Master Don Juan
Not sure about weight training, are u talking about kegals?, blokes can do the same exercise, u know, when you hold back.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
1) Who knows compared to the young girls of today, but they know how to work it. They've had their share of sex whether it be in many guys or LTRs.
2) Men see women with kids and run. Well, the ones looking for commitment. These women can't always get laid and for that insecurity, they need proof they're still desirable and they need **** cause they're horny.
I might not be experianced in the ways of women with kids, but the three I was with were hot, horny, tight, and easy. That's what my info is based on.