"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
28 year old... will it be tight? she has kids.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Why don't you go find out and tell us.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
[21:08:37] peacockbass 96: i took the 28 year old shooting today
[21:08:42] peacockbass 96: and shes like a 7-8
[21:08:53] peacockbass 96: body is a 9
[21:09:22] piranha45X: thats good
[21:09:31] piranha45X: you make out or was it 100% innocent?
[21:09:57] peacockbass 96: heh. no action
[21:10:07] peacockbass 96: but she was giving me hints and ****
[21:10:12] peacockbass 96: so next time should be something
[21:10:25] piranha45X: did you bust a move, or did you just wanna play it safe?
[21:10:34] peacockbass 96: play it safe.
[21:10:45] peacockbass 96: it was fun though
[21:10:51] peacockbass 96: ill bust something out next time if it feels right.
[21:12:27] piranha45X: you inquire on don juan?
[21:12:54] piranha45X: you should ask them if they'd gauge a typical 29 yr old as being pretty loose or not
[21:13:04] peacockbass 96: hmm
[21:13:08] peacockbass 96: that might be a good idea
[21:14:17] piranha45X: i mean she might be wondering "god damn is this guy a prude or what?!" for all u really kno
[21:14:21] piranha45X: so yeah i'd get on that post..
[21:15:08] peacockbass 96: (Link: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=76207)http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=76207
[21:16:33] piranha45X: cool, ill be checking that to see what they say
do you guys speculate the chick is gonna put out fast and easy for him, or not?
Alpine
Master Don Juan
Not with your size knob
Alpine
Master Don Juan
Not sure about weight training, are u talking about kegals?, blokes can do the same exercise, u know, when you hold back.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
1) Who knows compared to the young girls of today, but they know how to work it. They've had their share of sex whether it be in many guys or LTRs.
2) Men see women with kids and run. Well, the ones looking for commitment. These women can't always get laid and for that insecurity, they need proof they're still desirable and they need **** cause they're horny.
I might not be experianced in the ways of women with kids, but the three I was with were hot, horny, tight, and easy. That's what my info is based on.