"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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27 y/o virgin with communication problems.

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eldominante said:
I'm at bachelors. But ourr school system was like A-levels: 13 classes. After it, I study medical IT.
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Ya because I'm 26 and I only have a high school diploma
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I would say to stick with what you think is funny. Even if most women don't get the joke, look for the one who does. Being able to share a joke with a girl is one of the first steps in building rapport.

And if you're a natural at giving speeches, you would clean up even better with women at a Toastmaster's meeting. People who are good at anything should still want to get better.

Maybe there are student clubs you can join that don't cost anything. One more suggestion - women love animals. Any charity or cause that relates to them will be mostly women. I've said this on here before - stand in a public place with a cute puppy or kitten that you are trying to adopt out for a shelter and then tell me you can't talk to girls.
 
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