JaegerPilot217
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Ya because I'm 26 and I only have a high school diplomaeldominante said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
27 y/o virgin with communication problems.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I would say to stick with what you think is funny. Even if most women don't get the joke, look for the one who does. Being able to share a joke with a girl is one of the first steps in building rapport.
And if you're a natural at giving speeches, you would clean up even better with women at a Toastmaster's meeting. People who are good at anything should still want to get better.
Maybe there are student clubs you can join that don't cost anything. One more suggestion - women love animals. Any charity or cause that relates to them will be mostly women. I've said this on here before - stand in a public place with a cute puppy or kitten that you are trying to adopt out for a shelter and then tell me you can't talk to girls.
And if you're a natural at giving speeches, you would clean up even better with women at a Toastmaster's meeting. People who are good at anything should still want to get better.
Maybe there are student clubs you can join that don't cost anything. One more suggestion - women love animals. Any charity or cause that relates to them will be mostly women. I've said this on here before - stand in a public place with a cute puppy or kitten that you are trying to adopt out for a shelter and then tell me you can't talk to girls.
JaegerPilot217
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so you are in a 4 year university OP?
JaegerPilot217
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Also are you living in a dorm OP?