Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Real_Deal said:Thanks for posting your opinion. I don't think this forum has it wrong at all, the discussions in Mature Man are fine.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I am not so keen on people giving bad advice, regardless of age. I have seen some horrid generalizations here , such as a horribly misconstrued comment about kids of parents with Bi-Polar disease. People who have no business posting information do so with no regards to the truth, or even any imperial proof.Paradox said:One of the problems here is that we have posters who post that they are 25 just to be able to post here. Many of these 17-23 year old posters feel like they are mature enough to give advice to someone who is two or almost 3 times their age.
This is true and there are some 30+ year old virgins here. But I have an aversion to taking dating advice from a kid who could be my son. That's just me.synergy1 said:I have met retards in their 30s, and some really mature well to do people in their early 20s. Age has less to do with poor advice than overall stupidity of whoever is posting garbage.
I don't disagree with you.synergy1 said:I am not so keen on people giving bad advice, regardless of age. I have seen some horrid generalizations here , such as a horribly misconstrued comment about kids of parents with Bi-Polar disease. People who have no business posting information do so with no regards to the truth, or even any imperial proof.
I have met retards in their 30s, and some really mature well to do people in their early 20s. Age has less to do with poor advice than overall stupidity of whoever is posting garbage.
99% of kids don't know $hit, agreed. I guess if that one in a thousand kid w/ game came around, I'd like to hear their point of view. I am amazed by naturals, since I was anything but when I was a kid.Paradox said:This is true and there are some 30+ year old virgins here. But I have an aversion to taking dating advice from a kid who could be my son. That's just me.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
That's why I pick and choose my spots where I post on this forum. I don't feel comfortable giving advice to anyone who is 40+ unless they are really down and out or really in need of some of the most basic advice. But any thread about divorce, LTRs and marriages, I stay the hell out of, because I have no business giving anyone advice about them.Paradox said:This is true and there are some 30+ year old virgins here. But I have an aversion to taking dating advice from a kid who could be my son. That's just me.