"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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25 Worst Rappers of All Time

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Can someone help me try to identify a rapper. I'm not sure how big he was in the States as he was Canadian. It was in the early 90's around the same time as Vanilla Ice but he was no where near VI, he was actually a great rapper from what I remember.

I can't remember his name or any songs but I remember he came to Sudbury. He was fairly young, early 20's and always wore a Orlando Magic hat. He was from Oakville, ON (tdot suberb), oh yea he was white.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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MacAvoy said:
Can someone help me try to identify a rapper. I'm not sure how big he was in the States as he was Canadian. It was in the early 90's around the same time as Vanilla Ice but he was no where near VI, he was actually a great rapper from what I remember.

I can't remember his name or any songs but I remember he came to Sudbury. He was fairly young, early 20's and always wore a Orlando Magic hat. He was from Oakville, ON (tdot suberb), oh yea he was white.
never heard of him!
 

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You thinking of the guy that sang "Informer" Mac?

His rap name was "Snow".
 

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No it wasn't Snow. Like I said, he was actually good and well respected but he wasn't huge like Snow or Vanilla Ice (one hit wonders)
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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You thinking of the guy that sang "Informer" Mac?

His rap name was "Snow".
The title of his album was kinda funny.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJDamage

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MacAvoy said:
Can someone help me try to identify a rapper. I'm not sure how big he was in the States as he was Canadian. It was in the early 90's around the same time as Vanilla Ice but he was no where near VI, he was actually a great rapper from what I remember.
up until here I thought you were describing Maestro Fresh Wes:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pzull7scV2Y :up:

MacAvoy said:
I can't remember his name or any songs but I remember he came to Sudbury. He was fairly young, early 20's and always wore a Orlando Magic hat. He was from Oakville, ON (tdot suberb), oh yea he was white.
Then you lost me....if it wasn't Snow... then I was thinking the group with Tom Green: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2ctc4daiIZU

:crackup: that one stinks.
 
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