"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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24-year-old Payton Shires was engaged for over two years and had a three-year-old son with her fiancé when allegedly had sex with a teenage boy

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Ok, so when I read the title I was like ... wow, how could this have happened, right behind her fiancee's back? :rolleyes:
But when I look at their photos, it's apparent to me the dynamic in their couple ... she's the masculine figure, he appears to be a chump she could easily play like a fiddle. I checked her Twitter account and it appears she got pregnant within 6 months of them getting together, that means they both can't be that intelligent. She also has several large arm tattoos which I see as a red flag.


 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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seems to be such a crazy increase in the number of young (19-23) female teachers/social workers etc who are banging 13 year old boys lol.
 

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Sad their boyfriends/husbands can't put it down good enough that they find younger dudes to satisfy them.
 

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Ok, so when I read the title I was like ... wow, how could this have happened, right behind her fiancee's back? :rolleyes:
But when I look at their photos, it's apparent to me the dynamic in their couple ... she's the masculine figure, he appears to be a chump she could easily play like a fiddle. I checked her Twitter account and it appears she got pregnant within 6 months of them getting together, that means they both can't be that intelligent. She also has several large arm tattoos which I see as a red flag.


So what is it exactly that you see which makes you think she is the masculine figure?
 

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So what is it exactly that you see which makes you think she is the masculine figure?
Her face expression, how she looks into the camera ... it's something intangible, I can't describe it in objective, measurable terms. With some people, I can straight away form an impression, and these 2 qualify. Not that it's guaranteed, but in this case the events confirm that my first impression is most probably true.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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