"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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24-year-old Payton Shires was engaged for over two years and had a three-year-old son with her fiancé when allegedly had sex with a teenage boy

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Ok, so when I read the title I was like ... wow, how could this have happened, right behind her fiancee's back? :rolleyes:
But when I look at their photos, it's apparent to me the dynamic in their couple ... she's the masculine figure, he appears to be a chump she could easily play like a fiddle. I checked her Twitter account and it appears she got pregnant within 6 months of them getting together, that means they both can't be that intelligent. She also has several large arm tattoos which I see as a red flag.


 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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seems to be such a crazy increase in the number of young (19-23) female teachers/social workers etc who are banging 13 year old boys lol.
 

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Sad their boyfriends/husbands can't put it down good enough that they find younger dudes to satisfy them.
 

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Ok, so when I read the title I was like ... wow, how could this have happened, right behind her fiancee's back? :rolleyes:
But when I look at their photos, it's apparent to me the dynamic in their couple ... she's the masculine figure, he appears to be a chump she could easily play like a fiddle. I checked her Twitter account and it appears she got pregnant within 6 months of them getting together, that means they both can't be that intelligent. She also has several large arm tattoos which I see as a red flag.


So what is it exactly that you see which makes you think she is the masculine figure?
 

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So what is it exactly that you see which makes you think she is the masculine figure?
Her face expression, how she looks into the camera ... it's something intangible, I can't describe it in objective, measurable terms. With some people, I can straight away form an impression, and these 2 qualify. Not that it's guaranteed, but in this case the events confirm that my first impression is most probably true.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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