"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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23 year old virgin...no longer! I banged a milf...

yesman

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WOW! I just have to share this story!

I'm a 23 year old college student, and before last weekend I was a virgin (not by choice). In fact, before last weekend the most action I've had with a girl is just kissing, and I've never had a girlfriend either. No girl had ever touched or seen my ****, I'd never seen a girl naked in real life, never touched a vagina or breasts, etc. I could never figure why exactly I was in that situation, and it frustrated me since most of my friends were getting so much more action than myself. This all changed in the span of one crazy night.

So here's what happened:

- I'm out with friends and meet this attractive black girl. She's there with her brother and his girlfriend. I just make smalltalk with her, she is from the other side of the country and getting ready to move to my area.

- Eventually we are leaving to go to another bar and I invite her to join us. She declines to come with, but says maybe she'll see us there later in the night.

- I actually *do* see her later that night after I've had many, many drinks. What happened next is quite uncharacteristic of my normal self.

- I go and talk to her again, somehow start dancing (I never dance), turns into heavy grinding, turns into kissing. I've never kissed a girl in public before.

- We go to a few more bars, and we are making out a lot at this point. She suggests we get a hotel room.

- We get in a taxi cab, make out some more, and she starts to unzip my pants. Next...my first ******* ever, in the back of a taxi!

- We get to the hotel, get a room, and go right into the shower and fool around there. I get another *******. She gets out and says I'll be waiting in the bed. "Holy ****, I've never done this before" is what I'm thinking to myself at that point.

- I watch a LOT of porn, so I just do what I see happen in porns. I start playing with her ***** (first time fingering a girl), then start licking the **** (she's shaved), and she's really wet after 5 mins or so.

- Then we have sex. I went through 4 different positions (missionary, doggystyle, this sideways thing that is hard to describe, and cowgirl). Insane experience. I was definitely leading things, telling her what to do or how to turn, etc. Oh and I cummed on her lower back.

- We go get food at this late night diner.

- We return to the hotel, and have sex again!

- I told her afterwards that was my first time. She didn't believe me and asked how I knew what to do. I said "I watch a lot of porn" LOL. She said that what I did was way better than with her boyfriend...she said she cummed twice. Wow. Thank you spankwire.com!!

- In the morning I find out she's 31 years old, has a kid, and a boyfriend. Wow.

- I tell her it's probably best that we don't exchange phone numbers. We part ways, and I'll probably never see her again.

- In summary, a white 23 year old virgin experienced everything but anal with a hot black 31 year old milf in a single night.

- THE END!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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congrats man! seems like a pretty easy straight forward lay you probably didnt learn much, but getting rid of the v-card was a must, more an experience then a learning lesson for sure =)
 

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I would have kept that number, bro. Nothing wrong with a little booty call every week or two.
 

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the305 said:
congrats man! seems like a pretty easy straight forward lay you probably didnt learn much, but getting rid of the v-card was a must, more an experience then a learning lesson for sure =)
Definitely an experience. I just needed to get laid, and "get it out of my system" or whatever. And I did :) Now I will be much more confident in the future.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Iceberg said:
I would have kept that number, bro. Nothing wrong with a little booty call every week or two.
I thought about this too, I semi regret not getting it. I was just having a moral issue since she has a boyfriend. She actually spoke to him on the phone in front of me in the morning! I felt terrible. Oh well, nothing I can do at this point though.
 

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Imo it was shortsighted to not exchange numbers.

It looks like you could handle this maturely (not getting attached) but until you have other girls to bang, why toss this one?
 

2crudedudes

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I'm surprised you lasted that long :O

Anyway, congratulations!
 

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Great story and it sounds like an awesome experience.

One thing concerns me though

I've had many, many drinks. What happened next is quite uncharacteristic of my normal self.
It seems like the booze did it for you and I have no idea how many she's had.

I will give you respect for not messing it up.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Pierce said:
how u bust on her lower back.... i hope you used a condom -_-
oh god this!!!
 

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Good work, if you're anything like me you won't really start getting lots of ***** until you're late 20s/early 30s but this is a good start.
 

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hmmm its a probably good idea he didnt keep in contact with this woman...she does sound like potential trouble, and i can just imnage it going all wrong
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Congratulations!

But you shoulda kept that #, never know when she'd want you to hit it again.
 

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haha ok i'll add the part I left out...

- she said she's had a tubal ligation, so we didn't use a condom (i believe her because a more likely excuse for "don't use a condom" would be "i'm on birth control")

- i was drunk enough that i didn't care about stds (god i hope i don't have anything)

- the second time i cummed inside her

- i realize this was extremely poor judgement, which is why i'm going to try and have sex a little more sober next time

- the chance of transmitting an std in a single encounter (ok it was twice in my case) with no protection is actually pretty low, and even lower for female -> male transmission so the odds are in my favor.
 

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Dude, she's a black female that had sex with somebody she just met, without using protection. Do you think you're the first person she's done this with?

I would consider getting tested or at least speaking with somebody at a sexual health clinic.
 

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enjoy your aids :D

really dude? Your so ****ing stupid, no offense.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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