"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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22nd January 2nd Boot Camp week

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Sorry it took so long for my first report, I haven't been able to get much free time at a computer.

I've been practicing making eye contacting and greeting strangers for about a month, with almost all results being positive, people are surprisingly friendly once you stop pretending that they can't see you and you can't see them. Most of these were with dudes or older people though, so I'm going to make it a personal goal to make EC and greet 10 HBs daily.

I have 3 conversations so far, 1 was with a HB7 and it went better than expected. The other 2 were with dudes. Approaching and breaking the ice with new people is hard for me, I have a hard time showing my personality until I get to know new people, I think that makes me come off as fake or distant at first.

Tomorrow I'm going to go out just to find strangers to talk to, I don't think I can meet the goals otherwise.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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